My husband, Max Gruenberg, died on Valentine’s Day exactly one year ago today. In the 1980s, Max was involved in a bill that helps educate surviving family members about giving others a chance for a better or longer life by donating the organs, corneas, bone or tissue of loved ones.
I am comforted that two people have sight because Max’s corneas were donated. He was also able to donate tissue and bone.
As it turns out, Feb. 14 is National Donor Day. If you have a big heart, as Max did, today is the perfect day to talk to your family about passing your heart or other organs on if something happens to you. It is possible that you or someone you love might need a lifesaving donation and will depend on someone else’s generosity.
There are just two things to do: Register through the DMV or at alaskadonorregistry.org, and tell your loved ones what your wishes are. When the time comes, Life Alaska will call your next of kin and ask their permission as well. Knowing that you want to make this gift will help them say “yes” to that call.
Don’t let doubts about your own health damper your offer to donate either. Max had diabetes and other major health issues. He was still able to give.
Valentine’s Day is the perfect day for me to wish you and everyone who reads this a long and healthy life.
Kayla Epstein is the widow of Max Gruenberg.
